The seekBromance community has a lot in common with traditional online dating, but you shouldn’t treat it like a dating site. There really are some major differences in the dynamics of how a bromance develops.
True, your main objective is to find someone you have fun spending time with, just like on a regular dating site. But the guy who becomes your bro will end up playing many different roles in your life, sometimes switching those roles on the fly. He could serve as your best friend, your wing man, or even your brother. Usually, relationships like these take some time to develop, especially since men in general are much slower to open up emotionally than women are.
What this means for you as a member of seekBromance is this. Don’t ignore a guy who messages you just because he doesn’t have a bro-file photo that looks like Zac Efron. You can never predict who can be a bro, so it’s important to be open to lots of different – and diverse – people. Start a conversation, and later talk on the phone. You can figure out who’s a good guy long before you actually meet him. Most importantly, don’t put pressure on anyone, especially not on yourself. Pressure will completely ruin any good vibes between you and the guy you’re interacting with, and will take all the fun out of finding a bromance.
Gook luck!
-The Blog Dude
